Sexual Anorexia

Sexual Anorexia is an avoidance of sexuality. In the extreme, this deprivation is due to a horror and revulsion of sex.

Often Sex addicts are anorexic as they experience a 'binge & purge' behaviour. Also the spouse and eventually the children of a sex addict can become anorexic as the 'energies' in the family seek a natural balance.

The consequences of sexual anorexia can be severe and include poor health, depression, suicidal behaviour and isolation.

Anorexia, the avoidances and deprivations are considered part of the family of the addictions. As a result the help of others is essential in the healing process.

The healing journey moves towards the goal of a healthy sexuality. The journey includes the understanding of anorexic behaviour, and developing the skills for relationships in light of difficulties people have experienced.

We offer a 30-week program which includes skill development through task accomplishment, plus individual and group sessions.

Do I have a problem with sexual anorexia?

• Dread of sexual pleasure
• Persistent fear of sexual contact
• Obsessive vigilance about sexual matters
• Avoidance of anything connected with sex
• Preoccupation with other people being sexual
• Distortions about your own body's appearance
• Extreme loathing of body functions
• Obsessional self-doubt about sexual adequacy
• Rigid, judgmental attitudes about sexual adequacy
• Excessive fear and preoccupation with sexually transmitted diseases
• Obsessive concern or worry about the sexual intentions of others
• Shame and self-loathing over sexual experiences
• Despair about sexual adequacy and functioning
• Avoiding intimacy because of sexual fear
• Self-destructive behaviour to limit, stop, or avoid sex

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